Events in Fort Myers, Florida (written
BDSM, D/s, kink, fetish (whatever you want to call it) events have been
happening in Fort Myers since early 1999. Our play party currently
averages around 65 people, and we also have a monthly Munch/Brunch and
Dom/sub Dinner, quarterly Fetlife Meets, etc.
To ensure our guests' privacy and
comfort, invitations and reservations are handled by email. Please email
WhypDancer@Canes4pain.com if you are not currently receiving the emailed
You must be on the invitation list to be admitted to the parties. The
general public does not have access, and if you are not on the
invitation list, you are considered general public. These are large
private events (for Florida, anyway!), with safe, secure access.
Membership, reservation, and your activities are kept confidential. Your
privacy and comfort are taken very seriously.
We are a widely diverse group. All are welcome here, whatever your
interests in the BDSM, kink, D/s, fetish realm. No matter your kink (as
long as it is legal), gender, experience level, sexual orientation,
ownership status, marital status, etc.. you are welcome. Our ages range
from early 20's to 70's.
What you can expect:
You will be greeted outside the door by me, WhypDancer. When you enter,
you will be with other kinky people who have a wide variety of
is required or pressured to play at
these events. Realistically, around 5-10% of our guests play at the play
party. The others are watching, meeting new friends, learning, sharing,
shopping (we have vendors with a wide range of floggers, paddles, etc
for sale), connecting with familiar faces, and having fun.
If you DO want to play, we have some of the best play furniture around.
You can choose from St Andrews Crosses, Spanking Benches, the Bondage
Frame, or use your imagination and skills on the bar, a table, bar
stool, stripper pole etc. We also have comfortable couches for play or
socializing, and a comfortable, covered outdoor patio with comfortable
seating for our smokers or those that feel like socializing out there.
There is play furniture for you inside, and outside under the stars, if
that is your preference.
Our dress code is very simple. Neat & clean outfits-- you are welcome to
go as wild or conservative as you'd like! Our guests wear anything and
everything, from nearly nothing, to business casual, to leather, fetish
formal, to....? You never know what you'll see, and you will see a
little bit of any kind of clothing, except beach attire. People new to
our events frequently comment on how comfortable and welcome they feel,
and how they wish they'd have come out sooner. Whatever you decide to
wear, you can rest assured that there are others in the group wearing
something very similar. You won't feel out of place because of your
Many of our guests met for the first time at our events, fell in love,
and are living happily ever after. Many made new friendships here. You
will find us to be a very warm and accepting group.
What have I missed? Feel free to let me know by emailing me at
WhypDancer@Canes4pain.com. And don't forget to send me your email
address so I can add you to the invitation list!
Come out and enjoy!
~your hostess, whyp